How to Craft Your PERFECT Self-Talk

This is a direct quote from a "lesson" that My good friend Ken Klemm posted in our 30 Day Mental Cleanse forum :

(Note : Listen to the call recording here : http://mffaudios.com/audios/2012-06-04-3PM.htm)

Last week we mentioned that ONLY through
AUTO-SUGGESTION do Thoughts from our Environment enter
the programming in our Subconscious Minds. They become
part of our Belief Systems and Unconscious Abilities.

There is one other source from which Thoughts can enter
our Subconscious directly, bypassing the Conscious
mechanism of Self-Talk: The ETHER. There is no hard
science on the Ether- we just have enormous evidence
that it must exist, like gravity.

We INFLUENCE which Thoughts we receive from the Ether
by creating the VIBRATION to ATTRACT those Thoughts.

SELF-TALK sows the seeds in the fertile soil of the
Subconscious, and will yield and abundant crop of good
food or poison - depending on Your selection of seed!

The Proven Formula for Crafting Your Perfect Self-Talk:

PROVEN?

Yes, ALL who have followed these steps HONESTLY, and
followed through in SAYING the resulting Self-Talk
hundreds of times daily, have experienced Positive
RESULTS.

The 3 P’s...

Self-Talk must be Personal, Positive, and PRESENT TENSE
- It’s about YOU, it’s GOOD, and it’s happening NOW.

The LAW OF ATTRACTION...

For Self-Talk to work, it must invoke 3 things: a
DEFINITE, DOMINANT DESIRE (Dominant means Most of the
Time); a POWERFUL VIBRATION of Emotional FEELING; and
an UNSHAKABLE BELIEF.

Step 1: Download and print the PDF at http://mffaudios.com/docs/happywords.pdf

You’ll notice at the top of the word list are the
words, “Pursuit of Happiness”.

When I was devising this formula, I got a Thought from
the Ether that said, “Read the United States
Declaration of Independence.” I did, and the words
“Pursuit of Happiness” jumped off the page at me.

When we consider all we DESIRE, does it not all Begin
and End with HAPPINESS?

HELLO!?!

(A note about the Word List: Look, X, Y and Z are
tough, okay? I had to totally invent a word for X.
Xenophilic means enjoying, loving, being attracted to
folks from other places.)

Step 2: Sit comfortably in a quiet place. Close Your
eyes. Search back in Your memory for the moment when
You felt Your highest EMOTIONAL HIGH.

Maybe it was a first kiss, the exchange of wedding
vows, the birth of a child, receiving an award or high
honor, winning a contest or drawing, making the winning
play in a championship game, receiving Your first pay
or bonus check, whatever. We call this a PERFECT
MOMENT.

If You have many such moments to choose from, then You
are truly blessed. Search Your feelings and pick the
strongest.

If You have no such moments, then can You at least
IMAGINE one?

Step 3: With Your eyes still closed, relive that
moment. Experience the sight, sound, touch, smell and
taste of that moment.

Now, experience the Emotional FEELING of that moment.
Allow it to soar and lift Your spirit to that ULTIMATE
HIGH.

Step 4: CAPTURE that FEELING. Describe it in one, two
or three words.

Here is where the Word Lists becomes handy. You might
find Your word or words in the list, or the list may
lead You to them.

Step 5: Write down the words, “I AM” followed by Your
one to three words. (Stick the word “and” in there, if
You need it.)

The first two words fulfill the Personal and Present
Tense requirement. They also have special meaning to
students of the life of Moses.

Your FEELING words fulfill the Positive.

CONGRATULATIONS! This three to six-word phrase is the
root of, or a COMPLETE, Self-Talk that is PERFECT for
YOU!

Step 6: Test Your Self-Talk.

Does it invoke the requirements for the Law of
Attraction?

A. A Definite, Dominant Desire: Because at the root of
all we desire is the Pursuit of Happiness, our desired
result is to FEEL that way. Even if we have difficulty
nailing down a Chief Aim, to FEEL GOOD and FEEL MORE OF
IT MOST OF THE TIME should be our ROOT GOAL.

B. A Powerful Vibration of Emotional Feeling: Ditto the
last paragraph.

C. An Unshakable Belief: You’ve felt this way before.
Can You Believe You can Feel it again? Heck, You’re
Feeling It NOW!

So, SAY this Self-Talk OUT LOUD as often as You can ALL
DAY LONG, and especially as You lay down to sleep!

The Benefits of Your Self-Talk...

Mental Health. The vibrational state of Your Brain and
Mind will induce the flow of Inspiration, Imagination
and Attraction. Most of what and whom You Attract into
Your life will sustain and enhance Your GOOD FEELINGS.

Physical Health. There is overwhelming evidence that
Strong Positive Feelings improve the performance of
Your Digestive System. A healthy digestive system is
the root of healthy systems throughout Your body.
Whereas negative feelings hinder the functioning of
Your Digestive System - leading to headaches at first,
then eventually other ailments and diseases.

Optional Steps...

Step 7: Add Your immediate or primary business or
personal GOAL to Your Self-Talk, and add a few words ro
describe, in general, what You will GIVE in order to
achieve it. Remember to use Present Tense words.

Step 8: Test Your revised Self-Talk. SAY it OUT LOUD as
often as You can ALL DAY LONG.

If, after saying it hundreds of times, You experience
mostly negative feelings such as Fear, Dread, Doubt or
Disbelief, then You need to go back and adjust Step 7.

Lack of BELIEF erects a barrier which blocks the flow
of POSITIVE VIBRATIONS.

Your Friend and Servant,

Ken Klemm - Florida, USA

P.S. Another method to induce Good Mental and Physical
Health is LAUGHTER - good, hearty, robust laughter! I
don’t mean texting “roflol”, I mean actually rolling on
floor LAUGHING OUT LOUD! (You can omit the rolling on
floor part, it’s not necessary.)

If You cannot think of something sufficiently funny,
then look in the mirror. If that doesn’t help, then
just force a good laugh. Even forced laughter is good.

Napoleon Hill recommended a recording by Spike Jones
and His City Slickers. It contains no jokes, so it will
not offend anyone. You can listen to it anytime or
download the MP3 at: http://mffaudios.com/laugh/


Thank You Ken for allowing me to repost your brilliance.

Success In 10 Steps

Join Michael & Linda Dlouhy For The Next 30 Days And See The Results For Yourself

What are we talking about? It's called a 30-day mental cleanse. Yes, that's right. Too often we let things into our minds that should not be there and it hinders our progress. The best way to get your mind focused is to clean it up with what it should have. Think of it like rebooting your hard drive.

We have found this process to be more effective when people can do this together and share the result. What are you going to get? By joining this 30-day cleanse, we will send you ebook(s) to read and have weekly calls associated with this specific 30-day mental cleanse to assist you along the way. All that is required by you is your commitment to doing the program. If you are ready to become the right kind of person, then complete the form below. You will be sent the full instructions and Michael & Linda will keep in touch with you by email and on the weekly calls.Or join us in our forum here : http://30daycleanse.com/

We need to have Faith, but faith in what?

We need to have Faith, but faith in what?

This is a direct quote from a "lesson" that My good friend Graeme Little posted in our 30 Day Mental Cleanse forum (Think And Grow Rich -- Napoleon Hill):

We need to have Faith, but faith in what?
Faith in Yourself and the power of Love is all that is required. If we move through the world from a place of love then we see the world differently. We can filter our thoughts by our underlying world view. So look for the good in everyone and in every situation. Even if you see someone doing something you disapprove of, understand that they are acting from their personal world view and to them they are doing nothing wrong. You cannot change another person's world view although you can have an influence on their thoughts by your actions and indirectly may change their world view. So, do not judge others for judgement comes from Fear.

Most people believe subconsciously that by giving something, they must lose some of that. We are conditioned to have a winning - losing belief system. If someone wins then the other must lose. We accept this as true. Therefore most people hang on too tightly to what they have in fear of losing it. This applies to everything - Money, love, compassion, forgiveness, etc.

The real truth is that we are abundant in everything. We are made in the image of God and that is our birthright. But our environment, parents, friends, society have trained us to believe the opposite. We have been told we are no good, we can't be successful, you're not smart enough, people who have money must be crooks (that's what I was told when I was young because my father was wealthy and my parents divorced).

So how do you overcome decades of abuse and neglect? You must restore your Faith in the Universal Intelligence that created you.

You must believe that you are already abundant in all aspects of life. So how do you do that?

You have to BE what you are desiring by DOing things that demostrate you HAVE it. This is known as the BE..DO..HAVE Paradigm.
Most people live their lives believing the opposite and no amount of affirmations will change their reality. Most people think they must receive (HAVE) something before they can DO anything and thus BE who/what they want. Their dilemma is that their conscious mind can't accept that you can BE what you want when you appear not to possess what you need to HAVE.

So how do you BE something when you don't appear to already have it? Money is the perfect example because it is a tangible thing.

First you need Faith in the fact that you were created by the infinite power of All There Is and you possess the same infinite power within your soul. So you never need to look anywhere but within yourself for everything you need to manifest outwardly.
The auto-suggestion techniques are important to remind yourself of who you really are.

But, it goes even further than that, you must be DOing the thing you desire.

But how do I DO something like being rich when I am bankrupt?
The secret is to cause another to receive that which you desire. By causing another to receive wealth through your actions you are demonstrating to your subconscious that you already possess that thing and that you can freely give it away because you possess unlimited abundance of it.

Napoleon Hill mentions that you must incorporate feelings into your affirmations. Feelings are the language of the Soul.

How do you feel when you have helped another person become that which you desire. Humility causes you to love another and to give freely that which you know in your heart you possess. Otherwise how could you be giving it away.

How do you feel when someone tells you, you are wonderful, caring, compassionate, understanding, etc. It feels good to hear that because that is the truth and it resonates in your soul. Your soul will be saying I've been telling you that all the time, but you may not have been listening.

If you feel jealous of someone else's success or you feel that you are in competition with everyone, then you are acting from fear and you will drive wealth away from you.

It is not about YOU.

"What's in it for me" thinking will guarantee your failure because you are acting from a HAVE - DO- BE paradigm. You must reverse this to manifest success in your reality.

Napoleon Hill recommends to visualize that which you desire as having already arrived. Firstly, it doesn't have to arrive from anywhere because everything is already within you and so meditation allows you to go within.
Secondly, I suggest that you visualize not bundles of money for that is a given when you are successful, but instead visualize all the people you have helped.
You are sitting at an arena and on stage are all the people you have helped to grow their business and you are applauding them for their success.

Your own success is a given and not something you need to concern yourself with. It is simply who you are.
Humility allows others to decide who you are. There is no need to brag about who you are. Other people will label you as they see you.

This is why I was attracted to MFF because it provides me with an opportunity to help others to be successful. I can demonstrate to myself that I can only give away that which I already possess. By proving this outwardly every day my subconcious will only believe that I am a successful person and therefore the soul begins to create people, places and events into my life which outwardly demonstrate what/who I am.

Nothing happens by chance. We all create our reality and we can change that reality because we have free will. So demonstrate who you are through word and deed as often as you can and you will feel success and joy beyond measure.

Graeme Little, Brisbane, Australia

Thank You Graeme for allowing me to repost your brilliance.

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Success In 10 Steps

Join Michael & Linda Dlouhy For The Next 30 Days And See The Results For Yourself

What are we talking about? It's called a 30-day mental cleanse. Yes, that's right. Too often we let things into our minds that should not be there and it hinders our progress. The best way to get your mind focused is to clean it up with what it should have. Think of it like rebooting your hard drive.

We have found this process to be more effective when people can do this together and share the result. What are you going to get? By joining this 30-day cleanse, we will send you ebook(s) to read and have weekly calls associated with this specific 30-day mental cleanse to assist you along the way. All that is required by you is your commitment to doing the program. If you are ready to become the right kind of person, then complete the form below. You will be sent the full instructions and Michael & Linda will keep in touch with you by email and on the weekly calls.Or join us in our forum here : http://30daycleanse.com/

The Recipe For Success -- Does It Exist?

This is a direct quote from a "lesson" that I posted in our 30 Day Mental Cleanse forum :

CHAPTER 3
FAITH: VISUALIZATION OF, AND BELIEF IN ATTAINMENT OF DESIRE
The Second Step toward Riches

Faith is one of the key ingredients crucial to your success.  What Dr. Hill gives us in TGR is a recipe to follow to reach our dreams.  There are 13 ingredients. Desire, Faith, Auto Suggestion (self talk), Specialized Knowledge, Imagination, Organized Planning, Decision, Persistence, Power Of The Mastermind, The Mystery of Sex Transmutation, The Subconscious Mind, The Brain And The Sixth Sense.  Every single one of these ingredients is absolutely necessary for success.  It can be a daunting task to put into practice what Hill teaches in this book.

Although the ingredients are listed in a certain order, each one who reads the book will will grasp the principles in a different order.  That is why we need to read this book over and over and over and over again.  And why we need to discuss it within our mastermind.  Each one of us can help someone else understand the principles listed by writing lessons and speaking up on the calls.

I had been thinking about writing this lesson for a few days now.  I had a different approach in mind but once I started typing, the words just flowed, so I went with the flow.

I am grateful to Michael and Linda for creating MFF and the Mental Cleanse which have allowed me to grow as a person.

I am grateful to all who participate in this mastermind by posting lessons and speaking up on the calls.  Make sure you do post lessons and speak up.  What you write and/or say could be the trigger that someone else need to "get it".

I am grateful to all who download Success In 10 Steps and allow me to help them grow.

I am grateful to infinite intelligence for the nuggets it provides so that I can pass them on.

With much love and appreciation

Roger Boisjoli
Elie, Manitoba, Canada

P.S.  Earl Nightingale.
“Now, right here we come to a rather strange fact. We tend to minimize the things we can do, the goals we can reach, and yet, for some equally strange reason, we think others can do things that we cannot.” Earl went on to say, “I want you to know that that is not true. You do have deep reservoirs of talent and ability within you, and you can have the things you want.”

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Success In 10 Steps

Join Michael & Linda Dlouhy For The Next 30 Days And See The Results For Yourself

What are we talking about? It's called a 30-day mental cleanse. Yes, that's right. Too often we let things into our minds that should not be there and it hinders our progress. The best way to get your mind focused is to clean it up with what it should have. Think of it like rebooting your hard drive.

We have found this process to be more effective when people can do this together and share the result. What are you going to get? By joining this 30-day cleanse, we will send you ebook(s) to read and have weekly calls associated with this specific 30-day mental cleanse to assist you along the way. All that is required by you is your commitment to doing the program. If you are ready to become the right kind of person, then complete the form below. You will be sent the full instructions and Michael & Linda will keep in touch with you by email and on the weekly calls.Or join us in our forum here : http://30daycleanse.com/

The Sixth Sense -- What Is It?

This is a direct quote from a "lesson" that I posted in our 30 Day Mental Cleanse forum :

CHAPTER 14 (Think And Grow Rich -- Napoleon Hill)
THE SIXTH SENSE
THE DOOR TO THE TEMPLE OF WISDOM
The Thirteenth Step toward Riches

The sixth sense is that small voice that whispers in our mind and that most people don't hear.  First, before you can hear that voice, you have to shut off that constant negative chatter in our mind.  Once that is done by using our positive self talk, we can hear those whispers.  It is also crucial that we recognize the whispers for what they are and not dismiss them as more negative chatter.  Remember that once you have shut down the negative clattering, the silence will be deafening and the whispers can sound rather loud in contrast.

So say your self talk consistently and listen for those “hunches” or “inspirations.”

I am grateful to Michael and Linda for creating MFF and the Mental Cleanse and to all who participate in this forum.

I am grateful to those who download Success In 10 Steps and allow me to help them grow into the person they were meant to be.

I am grateful to infinite intelligence for dictating this lesson to me and for all the “hunches” or “inspirations.”

With much LOVE and appreciation

Roger Boisjoli
Elie, Manitoba, Canada
I make a difference in people's lives
Thank you Michael for allowing me to post this brilliant lesson.

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Success In 10 Steps

Join Michael & Linda Dlouhy For The Next 30 Days And See The Results For Yourself

What are we talking about? It's called a 30-day mental cleanse. Yes, that's right. Too often we let things into our minds that should not be there and it hinders our progress. The best way to get your mind focused is to clean it up with what it should have. Think of it like rebooting your hard drive.

We have found this process to be more effective when people can do this together and share the result. What are you going to get? By joining this 30-day cleanse, we will send you ebook(s) to read and have weekly calls associated with this specific 30-day mental cleanse to assist you along the way. All that is required by you is your commitment to doing the program. If you are ready to become the right kind of person, then complete the form below. You will be sent the full instructions and Michael & Linda will keep in touch with you by email and on the weekly calls.Or join us in our forum here : http://30daycleanse.com/

The Power Of The Mastermind

This is a direct quote from a "lesson" that My good friend Michael Hall posted in our 30 Day Mental Cleanse forum :

Chapter 10 (Think And Grow Rich -- Napoleon Hill)- Power of the Mastermind: The Driving Force (The Ninth Step Toward Riches)

"POWER IS REQUIRED FOR THE ACCUMULATION OF MONEY! POWER IS NECESSARY FOR THE RETENTION OF MONEY AFTER IT HAS BEEN ACCUMULATED!" -Napoleon Hill

To illustrate the power of the Mastermind:

Monday night, after finishing my daily business activities, I felt restless. I turned on the tv and started up Netflix, but couldn't bring myself to sit and put something on. I found myself thinking about the people I have started to mentor, and realized that I felt uncertain about how to mentor them. This raised a familiar feeling for me as a green. The feeling was a reluctance to take action in the face of the unknown. I knew that I didn't really know how to mentor anyone, so I was reluctant to allow anyone else to download the ebook (I kept doing the actions, but was not getting the results because I knew that I didn't know what to do after I had brought someone through the 4 steps of the Mentoring For Free system).

Rather than succumb to the fear by sitting on the couch, I went back to my computer and opened up mffaudios.com. I clicked on "Videos and Special Audios." Wouldn't you know it, there was an audio entitled, "The Answer To: "How Do You Know What To Say When Mentoring People?"" So I put it on.

On the audio, Michael Dlouhy talked about the movie Ghost, in reference to how 'stupid' our subconscious minds are. He guaranteed that everyone listening to the call cried at the end when Patrick Swayze got to kiss and hold Demi Moore one last time. As he said it, I thought back to when I watched it, then thought, "I didn't cry." It was a realization that begged the question, "Why didn't I?"

Michael went on to talk about desensitization, which got me thinking, what is desensitization?

At another point on the same recording, Michael was talking about his solution for "what to say when mentoring people." He said, "Always listen with your conscious mind, keeping the 7 positive emotions in the front of your mind at all times. ALL TIMES, with no agenda." He explained that everyone who was in need of mentoring was going to be coming from one or more of the 7 Negative Emotions. He had several people reflect on times he had mentored them, and they discovered the negative emotions that they had been coming from.

As I pieced these elements together, I had an epiphany.

The reason I had not cried at the end of Ghost was not because it had not affected my sub-conscious mind. It was because I had trained my conscious mind to become desensitized to what I was feeling sub-consciously. Desensitization is using the conscious mind to block the communication of the sub-conscious mind.

I then realized that my ego had tricked me into believing that I was a positive person. Because I was denying the negative emotions I have felt in my life, I had considered myself to be a positive person, when in truth, I was simply in denial of how negative I really was.

Even as I write this, experiencing flashes of emotion, I feel my well trained sub-conscious mind, at the behest of my conscious mind, fighting to stifle the feelings of fear, superstition, anger, lack, and (though it's not listed as a part of the 7 negative emotions) sadness. And sadness is the big one. As I'm writing, I am suddenly recalling my parents yelling at me as a small child, "Stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about!"

My nephew is only 6 months old, and I've seen my uncle and grandmother, and other's telling him not to cry and saying things like, "I don't like you when you cry." When I heard them saying it I felt irate. I wanted to yell that it's okay for him to cry. But I stifled it. Then I looked at my nephew in the eyes, and thought to him, "I love you and it's okay that you feel this way." And he smiled back at me.

I've heard it said that emotions are "energy in motion." Without emotion, there is no power. I have denied so many of my feelings for fear of giving power to realities that I don't want, but in doing so, I have denied myself the power I need to live the life I DO want.

Thanks to this loving and safe mastermind, and the power of the feelings shared by Michael, Linda, and many of the other leaders of Mentoring For Free, I am starting to allow myself to feel again. Thank you for believing in me, while I am learning to believe in myself.

Michael Hall - North Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Thank you Michael for allowing me to post this brilliant lesson.

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Success In 10 Steps

Join Michael & Linda Dlouhy For The Next 30 Days And See The Results For Yourself

What are we talking about? It's called a 30-day mental cleanse. Yes, that's right. Too often we let things into our minds that should not be there and it hinders our progress. The best way to get your mind focused is to clean it up with what it should have. Think of it like rebooting your hard drive.

We have found this process to be more effective when people can do this together and share the result. What are you going to get? By joining this 30-day cleanse, we will send you ebook(s) to read and have weekly calls associated with this specific 30-day mental cleanse to assist you along the way. All that is required by you is your commitment to doing the program. If you are ready to become the right kind of person, then complete the form below. You will be sent the full instructions and Michael & Linda will keep in touch with you by email and on the weekly calls.Or join us in our forum here : http://30daycleanse.com/

Rinse And Repeat

Her is my latest "lesson" in our 30 Day Mental Cleanse forum.

I just listened to the latest Darren Daily posting from Darren Hardy.  He talks about how he once attended the same presentation by Jim Rohn, not because he was crazy or stupid but because he found that he learned something new every time he went.  He says he learned something new because each time he went, he was a different person and his understanding expanded every time.

That is why we need to "be here a year from now".  We are not spinning our wheels or just going around in circles.  Yes, we are going around in circles but our circle expands each time around which gives us more understanding.

I am including Darren's summary here :

"Action for today:
Identify a book or program that you know you can go deeper with.

Today, schedule 30 minutes for yourself to re-read the first chapter of that book, go back through module 1 of that program or even re-listen, re-watch or re-read some of your favorite DarrenDailys.

To make sure you strike some oil, keep a 3×5 card ready for you to write down the 1 key idea you gained from your rinse and repeat session. See how you can implement that key idea this week!

And remember:

In the end, the fundamentals of success are simple and easy – getting yourself to stick to them is the difficult part.

Don’t make it even more difficult by confusing yourself with too many arbitrary opinions and conflicting ideas.

Declare what you will rinse and repeat this week in the comments below!

Your Daily Mentor,
-Darren"

Here is the link to this short audio : http://www.darrendaily.com/rinse-and-repeat/

Roger Boisjoli
Going around in circles is not crazy as long as your circle expands each time around.

See more great "lessons" here : http://30daymentalcleanse.info/index.php/board,263.0.html

Success In 10 Steps

Join Michael & Linda Dlouhy For The Next 30 Days And See The Results For Yourself

What are we talking about? It's called a 30-day mental cleanse. Yes, that's right. Too often we let things into our minds that should not be there and it hinders our progress. The best way to get your mind focused is to clean it up with what it should have. Think of it like rebooting your hard drive.

We have found this process to be more effective when people can do this together and share the result. What are you going to get? By joining this 30-day cleanse, we will send you ebook(s) to read and have weekly calls associated with this specific 30-day mental cleanse to assist you along the way. All that is required by you is your commitment to doing the program. If you are ready to become the right kind of person, then complete the form below. You will be sent the full instructions and Michael & Linda will keep in touch with you by email and on the weekly calls.Or join us in our forum here : http://30daycleanse.com/

Persistence: Why It Is Crucial To Your Success

This is a direct quote from a "lesson" that My good friend Margi Starr posted in our 30 Day Mental Cleanse forum :

Chapter 9 – Persistence

Here at Mentoring For Free, we always ask a new client who has downloaded our eBook to send us their WHY.

Unlike a typical job where you must punch a time clock to receive a paycheck, there’s no one looking over your shoulder when you are involved in MLM.  Being successful in network marketing requires the ability to be self-motivated and to have a strong backbone of Persistence.

It’s our WHY that helps us to move past the obstacles that can derail us.  It gives us that power to Persist even in times that can be frustrating. When team members quit on us or people tell us we’re crazy, our Why keeps us moving forward.

My WHY is written inside my Weekly Planner. My Vision Board has pictures of my family, places I want to travel to, people I want to see.  My written WHY and my visual WHY keep me focused on owning my life.  Together they provide me with both an anchor and a sail.

I am the only one who stands in my own way.  I am the only one who limits me.  My Why constantly reminds me who I am becoming and keeps me focused on what I desire.

With God’s grace and help, I control my destiny.  It’s not up to anyone else to motivate me.  No one else can give me Persistence.  I’m personally responsible for growing as a person and mastering the skills necessary for success.  It’s no one else’s responsibility to build my business but me!

It is said, “Your journey is your journey.”  Having failed at ten different MLM companies over twenty or so years, I finally discovered Mentoring for Free.  It was here that I first heard about the Five Pillars of Success. I always believed whatever the owners said about the company I was in.  Looking back, they all sang a familiar song.  “Our company is the best.” “Our products are the best.”  “Our comp plan is the best.”

Persistence led me to the eBook Success in 10 Steps and to Mentoring for Free. Free information is sometimes seen as not having much value, but that free information literally changed the course of my life.  I knew that I could no longer be part of this industry unless I was in a company that met the Five Pillar criteria. I studied those Pillars as though my life depended on it.

Because it did!

The Pillar regarding Compensation Plans was especially enlightening to me as well as the $10,000 question.

Whenever I review my Why, it is an emotional experience for me. My Why is not just broad paint strokes like “I want to have Time and Financial Freedom.”  Instead it is the individual faces of my husband, my children, and my grandchildren. It is the places I want to visit, the books I want to write, and the ministries I want to support.  My Why brings tears to my eyes because it is the essence of who I am as well as my Legacy.

My Why reflects the purpose for which God created me.  That understanding didn’t come overnight but is the result of years of personal growth, study and prayer. Everything I’ve experienced has brought me to this moment in time.

Thank you for Mentoring For Free, my network marketing company and Persistence.  Together you are helping me Own My Life.

Margi Starr
Springfield, Ohio

"Your Dream Board is Not Your Fantasy, It's Your Future."  (Pam Sowder)

Thank you Margi for allowing me to post this brilliant lesson.

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Success In 10 Steps

Join Michael & Linda Dlouhy For The Next 30 Days And See The Results For Yourself

What are we talking about? It's called a 30-day mental cleanse. Yes, that's right. Too often we let things into our minds that should not be there and it hinders our progress. The best way to get your mind focused is to clean it up with what it should have. Think of it like rebooting your hard drive.

We have found this process to be more effective when people can do this together and share the result. What are you going to get? By joining this 30-day cleanse, we will send you ebook(s) to read and have weekly calls associated with this specific 30-day mental cleanse to assist you along the way. All that is required by you is your commitment to doing the program. If you are ready to become the right kind of person, then complete the form below. You will be sent the full instructions and Michael & Linda will keep in touch with you by email and on the weekly calls.Or join us in our forum here : http://30daycleanse.com/